Simone de Beauvoir

Feminist existentialism

Modern influential 187 sayings

Sayings by Simone de Beauvoir

I am incapable of conceiving infinity, and yet I do not accept finity. I want this adventure that is the context of my life to go on without end.

Undated, but attributed to her philosophical musings. — A reflection on her existential desires, with a touch of the absurd in its contradiction.
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I tore myself away from the safe comfort of certainties through my love for truth—and truth rewarded me.

1972 — From 'All Said and Done' (memoir)
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No woman should be authorized to stay at home to raise her children. Society should be totally different. Women should not have that choice, precisely because if there is such a choice, too many women will make that one.

1975 — Interview in 'The Saturday Review'
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The curse which lies upon marriage is that too often the individuals are joined in their weakness rather than in their strength.

1949 — From 'The Second Sex'
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There is something in me which is not quite proper, for I do not like to be told what to do.

1947 — Letter to Nelson Algren
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One's life has value so long as one attributes value to the life of others, by means of love, friendship, indignation and compassion.

1949 — The Second Sex
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I wish that every human life might be an acceptable poem.

Unknown — Often attributed, exact source hard to pinpoint, likely a philosophical summation.
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I tore myself away from the safe comfort of certainties through my love for truth - and truth was undoubtedly at the bottom of my search for an autonomous existence.

1958 — Memoirs of a Dutiful Daughter
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The most marvelous thing about love is that it makes the future possible.

Unknown — Often attributed, general philosophical sentiment.
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To make oneself spiritual, one must make oneself a body.

1949 — The Second Sex
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There is no such thing as a natural woman.

1949 — The Second Sex
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I am a woman, I am a writer, I am a Communist, I am an atheist.

Unknown — Often attributed, but likely a summary of her identity rather than a direct quote.
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Old age is a parody of life.

1970 — Old Age
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She has been taught that she is a plaything, and she has learned to play.

1949 — The Second Sex
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To be oneself, simply oneself, is so amazing and so unique.

Unknown — Often attributed, general philosophical sentiment.
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Man is defined as a being that is free.

1949 — The Second Sex
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I was born to be happy.

Unknown — Often attributed, but hard to find a direct source. Reflects her general outlook.
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I am going to die, and I will not be able to write anymore. This is a very serious problem.

Approx. 1980s — Reported statement in her later years, reflecting her fear of death and its implications for her wor…
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If you live long enough, you'll make mistakes. But if you learn from them, you'll be a better person.

Unknown — Often attributed, a general life philosophy.
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There is no way to be a woman. There are only ways of being a woman.

Unknown — Often attributed, a popular interpretation of her work.
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